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Mind Awareness – Catch Thoughts that Hold You Back from Your Dreams

September 11, 2024 by Nicola Walker

lightbulb above outstretched palm of handYou can cultivate the practice of mind awareness to catch the thoughts that hold you back from your dreams and mindfully shift gears into a fresh perspective.

We all do it from time to time. Worry, overthink, expect something to be hard. We approach situations with unquestioned stories that we tell ourselves, that make life harder than it needs to be. I call this negative visioning.

One of the stories I have to catch myself telling is expecting things to be hard. This way of thinking can sneak in, influencing how I feel when I decide to create a new workshop or event. Initially, I am fired up with inspired passion, which soon fades when I think about promoting and filling it. I all too easily remember what has been hard in the past, rather than reflect on my successes. Once I catch myself, I remember that, fortunately, I can choose a perspective that helps me to feel inspired and excited about promoting my event.

Practicing mind awareness is also about catching different self images that we can slip into, such as seeing ourselves as a victim, powerless, not good enough, burdened, alone or different. Equally, we might be compensating for feelings of inadequacy by trying too hard, being pushy or controlling.

Awareness is key to bursting the bubble of illusion. We are all powerful, creative beings. We can use our power to focus on opening to greater possibilities. 

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Filed Under: Live Your Dream Tagged With: fears, mind awareness, mindfulness

Feeling rushed: How to slow down and find your natural pace in work and life

September 14, 2017 by Nicola Walker

Swan in still water, with reflection, the opposite of feeling rushedDo you sometimes feel like your time is not your own? From the moment you wake, you are feeling rushed by your agenda full of everything you have to attend to, racing you through the minutes and the hours until you look at the clock in amazement and dismay. What happened? You long to fit in yoga, meditation, reflection time with your journal, or a run in the park, yet once again your day ran away from you.

Whether you work on-site at a job or work from home with a job or your own business, it’s important to find your rhythm for doing your work and taking care of your body and soul. Some people are fast-paced and others are more slow-paced. Whatever type you are, if you consistently overstretch your limit of what you can comfortably do, you may either burn out, or experience physical and emotional symptoms indicating that you’re out of balance.

Fast-paced people may find that they don’t notice the warning signs when they are piling on too much and starting to burn out. Slow-paced people can often push themselves so they can keep up with other people’s standards for productivity while judging themselves for being the way they are. Eventually, if you keep pushing yourself and feel rushed a lot of the time, you get so out of sync with yourself that you get tired, sick or even injure yourself. Often people injure ankles and knees, which are about fear of moving forward. Or, they have back or shoulder pain from carrying too much on their shoulders.

Slow down and move at your natural pace rather than letting the world dictate your pace. [Read more…] about Feeling rushed: How to slow down and find your natural pace in work and life

Filed Under: Stress Tagged With: balance, fears, slow down, work life

Feeling Overwhelmed in Your Business: Take Time to Listen to the Reason Why

August 31, 2017 by Nicola Walker

Big tree roots - get to the root of feeling overwhelmed in your business

When you work alone, as a solopreneur or entrepreneur, without a team or support system, you can sometimes feel overwhelmed by all the actions you think you need to take each day. If feeling overwhelmed in your business is a pattern that you find yourself in often, the best approach is to find out what is beneath the overwhelm. There is a lot of information around on the practical steps you can take to move past overwhelm into action. You may be familiar with several already. For example, breaking down each project into small steps and deciding which project you will begin with. However, if prioritization and breaking down projects into small steps isn’t working for you, or would work if you could get past a deeper rooted paralysis, then take a ten minute break to dig deeper.

What to do in 10 minutes if you are feeling overwhelmed in your business or work

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: entrepreneurs, fears, limiting beliefs, overwhem

Stop Negative Thinking: Develop Mind Awareness

February 2, 2017 by Nicola Walker

blue sky with clouds - stop negative thinking, develop mind awarenessDoes your mind sometimes drive you to distraction? How often do you catch yourself worrying, imagining negative outcomes or getting upset when what you want is not happening. Discover how mind awareness can help you to stop negative thinking.

Maybe you are good and catching your negative thoughts. But when you catch yourself, do you stop negative thinking? Or, do you just pick up where you left off on the downward spiral of worry, fear and negative mind talk? I don’t really like the term negative thinking. It sounds heavy and judgmental. But I know I can feel pretty heavy when I start worrying or judging reality.

So what to do? First of all, congratulate yourself, because if you’re reading this article you have probably moved, for the most part, out of the first stage of mind awareness.

Here are the first three stages of mind awareness: [Read more…] about Stop Negative Thinking: Develop Mind Awareness

Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: awareness, fears, negative thinking, small self

Are Your Fears Making You Give Up On Your Dreams? Five Reasons Why People Compromise On Their Dreams

January 12, 2017 by Nicola Walker

red orange flower full bloom - are your fears making you give up on your dreams?“I’ve always dreamed of having an exciting life,” a woman in her mid-thirties told me.  Now she was concerned because she had given up on her dreams in order to play safe, while at the same time fearing that her life was running away from her. Are your fears making you give up on your dreams? I often come across people who feel like they have compromised on their dreams. Dreams change. The dreams you have in your early years can be transplanted by new dreams as you grow and evolve. Yet, the more you’ve been knocked around by life, struggled and tasted failure, the harder it can be to rise up and experience the fruits of your yearnings.

Five reasons why people compromise or give up on their dreams that I come across the most.

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Filed Under: Live Your Dream Tagged With: dream life, fears, self-expression

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